
Are you compassionate about providing customized, compassionate and consent-based support for families?
Our team is a collective of compassionate professionals helping families navigate conflict, disconnection, and change.
We specialize in trauma-aware, non-coercive, consent-based support for families experiencing “high-conflict” dynamics, separation/divorce, court-involvement, child protection or law enforcement agency involvement or relational ruptures. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, child, or professional seeking support, we walk beside you—with compassion, clarity, and respect. At the co-lab, we don’t force outcomes. We foster emotional safety, amplify voice, and support meaningful repair—at a pace that honors everyone involved.
Interested in joining us?

Services we provide.
Individuals
Personal Coaching + Counselling
Court Ordered Counselling
Parent Coaching + Counselling
Co-parent Coaching + Counselling
Couples + Co-Parents
Couples Coaching + Counselling
Parent Coaching + Counselling
Co-parent Coaching + Counselling
Court Ordered Counselling
Parenting Coordination
Children + Youth
Child/Youth Counselling
Court Ordered Counselling
Play Therapy
Supervision + Observation
Therapeutic Parenting Time Facilitation
Parenting Time Supervision
Parenting Time Observation
Family Mediation
Pre-mediation Coaching
Comprehensive Family Mediation
Child-inclusive Family Mediation
Moderated Discussions
Assessments + Reports
Parenting Plan Development and Support
Mediation Summary Reports (following mediation)
Section 211 Reports
Child Assessments
Hear the Child Reports
Voice of the Child Reports
Customized Family Support
Family Support Program - Improving the health of relationships, and functionality of co-parenting partnerships.
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a note from our founder.
It’s lovely to “meet” you—and thank you for taking the time to explore whether joining our team at Co-lab might be the right fit for you. I encourage you to read through our non-negotiables with care, and to bring forward any questions that arise along the way. Transparency and alignment are at the heart of everything we do, and your voice matters from the very beginning.
I come to this work not only as a seasoned professional—having led local, national, and international teams supporting vulnerable populations—but also as someone who grew up in a high-conflict family system. My personal experience shapes every part of my professional lens.
At Co-lab, we believe every child has the right to their childhood—and to safe, healthy relationships with family members, free from force, pressure, or coercion. We never push people into connection. Instead, we walk alongside individuals as they build the skills, self-advocacy, and emotional safety needed to form and sustain meaningful relationships. Coercion only replicates the very harm we’re here to help repair.
People sometimes ask if this work really makes a difference. My answer is always yes. I’ve seen trauma-aware, consent-based support unravel years of court entanglement, repair long-fractured parent-child relationships, and help co-parents move from chaos to calm, grounded collaboration.
As professionals, we are guided by the principle of “do no harm.” At Co-lab, that’s not just a phrase—it’s a deep, daily commitment. If you’re considering joining our team, I invite you to reflect on what that principle means to you in practice. Here, we embody it with intention, humility, and a steadfast belief that change is possible when people feel safe enough to choose it.
We’re truly glad you’re here. Let’s see what we can build—together.

Who do we look for?
RCC, RP, CCC, or RSW designation or equivalent with their applicable governing/regulatory body
Registered and in good standing with the appropriate regulatory body (ex. BC Association of Clinical Counsellors, Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association, Family Mediation Canada)
Minimum of 5 years working with divorcing/separated families, "high conflict" families or personalities, and/or family justice conflicts (the majority of our team has 10+ years of tenure working with our client bases
Experience/training regarding the impact of family law involvement and co-parenting conflict on children
Experience/training regarding the impact of family law involvement on co-parents
Experience/training in identifying and mitigating cognitive bias, and countertransference
Education/training regarding family violence and intimate partner violence
Experience/training regarding working with survivors of family violence/intimate partner violence
Experience/training regarding working with causers of harm (family violence perpetrators)
Education/training regarding mediation and conflict dispute resolution
Education/training regarding child development and adverse childhood experiences
Education training regarding neuro-affirming practices for neurodivergent clients
Working knowledge of the family law system (Provincial and Supreme Court)
Working knowledge of the family law process
Clear criminal record check
Clear vulnerable sector check
Maintenance of professional liability insurance (minimum of two million)
*We actively hire allied professionals who have worked and/or are working in child protection agencies, law enforcement agencies, anti-oppressive organizations, and indigenous advocacy.
*Lived experience is welcomed and considered an asset.
Considering joining us?
Here are our non-negotiables
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At the co-lab company, we are committed to continuous learning and professional evolution. All professionals engaged with our team are required to complete a minimum of four (4) hours of continuing education or training every three (3) months. These hours must come from either our approved list of webinars, workshops, courses, and conferences, or from other pre-approved sources relevant to our practice.
Every six (6) months, professionals must submit completion certificates and/or written summaries of their training to demonstrate fulfillment of this requirement. This ongoing commitment to education ensures our team stays informed about current best practices, equity-informed interventions, trauma-aware supports, and developments across mental health, family systems, and social services.
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At the co-lab, professionals operate exclusively from a consent-based, coercion-free framework. We recognize that true connection and change cannot be forced—especially in family systems impacted by trauma, relational rupture, or conflict.
We do not coerce or pressure adults or children to engage with one another. Instead, we prioritize understanding the nuanced dynamics between individuals and fostering emotionally safe, functional, and voluntary interactions. Consent is not simply a checkbox—it is a continuous process that we uphold across every service we provide.
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Many of the children, youth, and adults we work with have experienced harm, invalidation, or retraumatization through past experiences with mental health systems or professionals. At the co-lab company, we see it as our responsibility to rebuild trust in therapeutic and support spaces.
Our professionals are trained and expected to uphold emotional safety as a foundational element of their work. This means showing up with humility, cultural responsiveness, trauma-informed awareness, and an unwavering commitment to making every client feel heard, respected, and in control of their own experience.
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Many co-lab professionals bring decades of rich experience, training, and wisdom to our collective. We honour that expertise while recognizing that collaboration requires humility.
Our professionals are not here to “fix” families or assert superiority over those we serve. Instead, we operate from a team-based, client-centered model that values curiosity over certainty, flexibility over rigidity, and growth over ego. We ask thoughtful questions, share insights without attachment, and support one another in service of the people and systems we’re here to help.
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We are not on any one person’s “side.” We are on the side of safe, functional, and respectful relationships.
Our team practices omnipartiality—we remain impartial to any individual while being partial to the health and integrity of the whole system. This includes avoiding triangulation, upholding respectful communication, and refusing to collude with power imbalances. When we assess, mediate, or support families, we maintain ethical boundaries and remain guided by evidence-based practice, consent, and fairness.
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Co-lab professionals are expected to engage from a non-pathologizing, trauma-informed lens. We recognize that many behaviours—especially those labelled as “challenging” or “resistant”—are adaptive survival strategies shaped by context, adversity, and protective instincts.
Rather than reducing people to diagnoses or deficits, we seek understanding. We view every behaviour as a communication, every rupture as a story, and every person as inherently worthy of dignity, compassion, and possibility.
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We believe that high-quality, responsive service is only possible when clients and professionals are in dialogue. The co-lab company maintains regular check-ins and feedback mechanisms to ensure our services remain aligned with client needs and expectations.
Professionals are expected to participate in structured internal reviews, client satisfaction surveys, and self-assessment processes. Feedback is used not as a punitive tool, but as a collaborative opportunity for reflection and growth—ensuring that both clients and practitioners are seen, supported, and continuously evolving.
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We acknowledge that our clients come from diverse racial, cultural, neurodivergent, gendered, economic, and spiritual backgrounds. Co-lab professionals are expected to actively engage in anti-oppressive, anti-racist, and culturally responsive practices.
This includes naming our own biases, seeking supervision or consultation when needed, and centering the lived experience of those we support. We honour intersectionality and recognize that systems of harm often replicate themselves unless we interrupt them—deliberately and consistently.
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Accountability is not a punishment—it’s a practice of repair, reflection, and realignment. All co-lab professionals are expected to take responsibility for their impact, to participate in debriefs when harm occurs, and to communicate transparently when errors, misunderstandings, or misalignments arise.
We believe that modelling non-defensive accountability helps foster trust, model healthy relationships, and support authentic progress.
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At the co-lab company, we do not view ethics as a list of compliance rules but as a living, relational practice. We are bound by our professional codes of conduct, but we are also committed to everyday ethical decisions that consider power, safety, integrity, and care.
Relational ethics guide how we speak, write, report, engage, and advocate. This includes using non-stigmatizing language, avoiding dual relationships, being thoughtful with confidentiality, and remaining mindful of how our presence and role can influence others.
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We teach and model that boundaries are not barriers—they are expressions of safety, clarity, and mutual respect. Our professionals are expected to maintain firm and transparent boundaries around scope of practice, availability, dual relationships, and emotional enmeshment.
This includes resisting urgency culture, redirecting individuals appropriately, and clearly differentiating therapeutic support from legal advice or adjudication. Strong boundaries create space for healthy connection, ethical care, and emotional containment.
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Mistakes will happen. Ruptures are inevitable in work this complex. What matters is how we respond.
At the co-lab company, we treat rupture and repair as integral to relationship-building. Professionals are encouraged and expected to:
Reflect honestly when something goes wrong
Receive feedback without defensiveness
Make amends with humility
Adapt future actions based on insight
We do not avoid discomfort—we lean into it with care, always prioritizing relational repair over reputational protection.
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We are intentional about how we speak and write about the people we support. Our team uses person-centered, trauma-informed, and dignity-affirming language across all verbal, written, and digital communication.
We avoid pathologizing, blaming, or stigmatizing language. We refrain from professional jargon when working with clients. We actively seek to mirror clients' preferred terms, especially around identity, experiences, and relational roles.
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Co-lab professionals must clearly understand and respect the boundaries of their training and certification. If a family or individual requires services outside a professional’s scope, that professional is expected to pause, consult, and refer—not improvise.
Working within scope is not a limitation—it’s an act of integrity and respect for the depth of care that clients deserve. Supervision, team debriefing, and external consultation are all part of our commitment to ethical practice.
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Whether writing reports, summaries, or notes, our professionals commit to recording information ethically, accurately, and respectfully. We write with the understanding that our words may one day be read by the people we are writing about—and possibly in court.
Our writing avoids shaming, editorializing, or assuming intent. We document in a way that upholds the dignity of every individual, and aligns with the standards of transparency and neutrality we uphold.
What is mandatory for our co-lab professionals?
Supervision
Whether you bring five years or thirty years of experience, having external perspective is essential. At Co-Lab, we believe that ongoing supervision is not a sign of inexperience—it’s a commitment to ethical, reflective practice.
All professionals providing mental health support are required to engage in a minimum of one (1) hour of supervision per month. This ensures that our work remains grounded, accountable, and aligned with best practices—while also providing space for growth, debriefing, and support.
Therapy
All professionals working with our team are expected to maintain ongoing therapeutic support. This is not only to help manage transference and countertransference, but also to ensure we are personally supported as we engage with the complex, and often emotionally charged, dynamics we witness in our work each day.
Sustaining our own wellness is a non-negotiable part of providing ethical, attuned, and effective care to others. All professionals are required to engage in a minimum of one (1) hour of therapy every two (2) months.
What do we provide?
Supervision
All co-lab professionals benefit from both monthly individual and group supervision facilitated by highly experienced leaders in the field. These supervisors bring a depth of understanding around trauma-informed practice, family systems, and high-conflict dynamics—providing rich opportunities for reflection, debriefing, and skill development.
Group supervision sessions are offered monthly and scheduled across various time zones to ensure accessibility.
Individual supervision is available on an ad-hoc basis and can be booked directly through our internal system.
Supervision is not only a professional requirement—it is a cornerstone of ethical, sustainable, and high-impact work. It supports us in maintaining clarity, managing complexity, and providing accountable care to the individuals and families we serve.
Booking & Practice Management Support
Professionals are provided with access to a fully integrated booking system and secure client portal that streamlines scheduling, record keeping, invoicing, and communication. This system helps reduce administrative overhead and allows professionals to focus more deeply on client work.
Client Referrals & Marketing Pipeline
Co-Lab actively markets the services we offer and maintains a consistent pipeline of values-aligned clients. Our outreach spans web presence, social media, professional networks, and partnerships with legal and clinical organizations.
Depending on your area of expertise, you may be invited to work:
Individually with clients,
As part of a collaborative care team,
Or as a contributor to court-mandated or specialized family support services.
Team-Based Collaboration
Professionals at the co-lab company have opportunities to work within multi-disciplinary, consent-based teams. This team approach supports more holistic and responsive care—particularly for families navigating complex relational or legal dynamics.
Professionals benefit from regular interdisciplinary case discussions, internal referrals, shared insight, and the support of others who understand the depth and intensity of the work.
Resource Library & Ongoing Training
Professionals have access to a curated and continually updated library of resources, including:
Assessment tools
Reporting templates
Trauma-informed frameworks
Family systems models
Legal process reference guides
Neurodivergence-affirming and culturally responsive practice tools
Additionally, we host internal workshops and peer-led learning circles, and support attendance at external conferences, webinars, and certification trainings. As part of our commitment to excellence, we also require a minimum of 4 hours of continuing education every 3 months.
Support Navigating Court-Involved Systems
For those working with court-involved families, we provide:
Templates and training for writing clinical updates, service summaries, and consent-based observations
Guidance on documentation standards that are accurate, professional, and protective
Consultation and supervision to support you in high-stakes or legally sensitive cases
Boundary scripts and protective policies for handling communication from legal counsel or opposing parties
Our goal is to support clarity and containment so you can stay within your scope while still providing high-quality, child-centered support in complex family contexts.
Professional Recognition and Opportunities for Growth
Within the Co-Lab team, we recognize excellence, collaboration, and innovation. Professionals may be invited to:
Co-develop service streams or pilot programs
Facilitate group interventions or reflective workshops
Mentor new team members
Publish blog posts or resources
Represent Co-Lab in community or professional forums
Growth here isn’t just about seniority—it’s about contribution, thought leadership, and relational integrity.
Flexible Work Arrangements
You set your own schedule and have autonomy over your work environment, caseload volume, and hours of engagement. Whether you work full-time or offer select hours, your professional time is respected and your boundaries are upheld.
Our infrastructure is designed to support flexible, hybrid, and remote work, so that professionals can provide high-impact care without sacrificing personal wellness or family commitments.
Psychological Safety and Peer Support
Working with complex family dynamics, high conflict, and trauma-impacted systems can be isolating. Co-Lab provides regular opportunities for connection, debriefing, and peer grounding—not just for cases, but for you as a person.
Whether you’re managing emotional fatigue, navigating a difficult interaction, or simply needing someone who understands the terrain, our team is here. Psychological safety is not optional—it’s embedded in how we relate.
Professional Autonomy with Infrastructure Support
At the co-lab, you retain your professional autonomy while being part of a deeply supported infrastructure. We respect your scope, specialization, and chosen modalities while providing guidance, documentation, and structure to anchor your work.
You’re not left to “figure it out alone”—and you’re not micromanaged. We co-create clarity, alignment, and impact together.
