Are you a provider who is passionate about providing customized, compassionate and consent-based support for individuals and families?

Our team is a collective of compassionate professionals helping families navigate conflict, disconnection, and change.

We specialize in trauma-aware, non-coercive, consent-based support for families experiencing “high-conflict” dynamics, separation/divorce, court-involvement, child protection or law enforcement agency involvement or relational ruptures. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, child, or professional seeking support, we walk beside you—with compassion, clarity, and respect. At the co-lab, we don’t force outcomes. We foster emotional safety, amplify voice, and support meaningful repair—at a pace that honors everyone involved.

Interested in joining us?

a note from our founder

It is truly lovely to meet you, and thank you for taking the time to explore whether Co-lab may feel like the right professional home for you. As you move through our non-negotiables, I invite you to do so with care and curiosity, and to bring forward any questions or reflections that arise. We value transparency, mutual alignment, and honest dialogue from the very beginning, and your voice matters here.

I come to this work both as an experienced professional who has led teams at local, national, and international levels in support of vulnerable populations, and as someone whose own childhood was shaped by a high-conflict family system. That lived experience sits gently but firmly at the centre of how I approach this work, how I lead, and how I hold families and professionals alike.

At the co-lab, we hold a deep belief that every child has the right to their childhood and to relationships that feel safe, respectful, and emotionally grounded. We do not believe in forcing a connection or rushing a repair. Instead, we walk alongside people as they develop the capacity, voice, and emotional safety needed to choose connection in ways that feel authentic and sustainable. When pressure or coercion enters the process, it often recreates the very harm we are trying to heal.

People sometimes wonder whether this kind of work truly changes outcomes. I have seen it do so time and again. Trauma-attuned, consent-based support has the power to soften entrenched conflict, ease the weight of prolonged court involvement, and open space for parent-child relationships to rebuild at a pace that honours everyone involved. I have witnessed families move from chronic stress toward greater steadiness, clarity, and care. I’ve also witnessed professionals who have been hardened by broken systems… exhale while providing services within our framework. We are open to innovation, we are open to voice/choice, and we are able to move the needle on many files (often ones that professionals have passed around and given up on) because we show up to see and hear the folks we support.

As professionals, many of us are guided by the principle of doing no harm. At the co-lab, this principle is lived daily through thoughtful pacing, humility, reflection, and a willingness to listen deeply. If you are considering joining our team, I invite you to reflect on what doing no harm looks like in practice for you, especially in moments of complexity or uncertainty. We hold this work with tenderness and accountability, trusting that meaningful change becomes possible when people feel safe enough to choose it.

At the co-lab, we also recognize that many seasoned professionals join our team after years of practicing in isolation, often carrying significant responsibility and risk on their own. Working alone can leave even highly experienced clinicians and practitioners vulnerable within adversarial systems, particularly when thoughtful, child-centred assessments are met with disagreement, misrepresentation, or efforts to undermine professional credibility. We intentionally counter this vulnerability through shared clinical responsibility, collective decision-making, documentation support, supervision, and organizational advocacy. Our team is not left to stand alone when doing careful, principled work. We hold one another with steadiness, accountability and protection, ensuring that professionals can practice with confidence, clarity, and ethical courage, even in complex and contested environments.

We are genuinely glad you are here. As a professional, I have become, and a (now grown) child whose professionals and systems once failed them consistently.

Among the many court-appointed professionals I encountered as a child, there was one therapist who worked with me for approximately two years. They held space for my truth, my voice, and advocated for my autonomy and right to choose, even during an extended period when I refused to speak to them. They offered fierce unconditional positive regard and remained steadfast in centring my well-being, rather than prioritizing adult agendas or institutional pressures. That therapist changed the trajectory of my life by providing safety, trauma-attunement, and consent. They are the reason I have relationships with family members on my own terms as an adult.

My core goal in building this company, and the work that surrounds it, is to empower professionals to serve as catalysts for people reconnecting with themselves and developing the capacity to engage in healthy, meaningful relationships, whether within families or beyond them. I am also deeply committed to ensuring that individuals leave our work with a positive, respectful view of mental health professionals, so they feel able to seek support throughout their lives when it is needed.

I invest deeply in our team through training, supervision, protection, and shared responsibility. In return, I hold an expectation that professionals show up with curiosity, openness, and a genuine commitment to continual betterment. This means remaining reflective, strengthening credibility over time, refining effectiveness through practice and feedback, and staying ethically grounded as the work and the systems around us evolve.

I look forward to supporting and investing in your ability to meaningfully contribute to our client’s lives.

Who do we look for?

  • RCC, RP, CCC, or RSW designation or equivalent with their applicable governing/regulatory body

  • Registered and in good standing with the appropriate regulatory body (ex. BC Association of Clinical Counsellors, Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association, Family Mediation Canada)

  • Minimum of 5 years working with divorcing/separated families, "high conflict" families or personalities, and/or family justice conflicts (the majority of our team has 10+ years of tenure working with our client bases

  • Experience/training regarding the impact of family law involvement and co-parenting conflict on children

  • Experience/training regarding the impact of family law involvement on co-parents

  • Experience/training in identifying and mitigating cognitive bias, and countertransference

  • Education/training regarding family violence and intimate partner violence

  • Experience/training regarding working with survivors of family violence/intimate partner violence

  • Experience/training regarding working with causers of harm (family violence perpetrators)

  • Education/training regarding mediation and conflict dispute resolution

  • Education/training regarding child development and adverse childhood experiences

  • Education training regarding neuro-affirming practices for neurodivergent clients

  • Working knowledge of the family law system (Provincial and Supreme Court)

  • Working knowledge of the family law process

  • Clear criminal record check

  • Clear vulnerable sector check

  • Maintenance of professional liability insurance (minimum of two million)

*We actively hire allied professionals who have worked and/or are working in child protection agencies, law enforcement agencies, anti-oppressive organizations, and indigenous advocacy.

*Lived experience is welcomed and considered an asset.

Considering joining us?

Here are our non-negotiables

What is mandatory for our co-lab professionals?

Supervision

Whether you bring five years or thirty years of experience, having external perspective is essential. At Co-Lab, we believe that ongoing supervision is not a sign of inexperience—it’s a commitment to ethical, reflective practice.

All professionals providing mental health support are required to engage in a minimum of one (1) hour of supervision per month. This ensures that our work remains grounded, accountable, and aligned with best practices—while also providing space for growth, debriefing, and support.

Therapy

All professionals working with our team are expected to maintain ongoing therapeutic support. This is not only to help manage transference and countertransference, but also to ensure we are personally supported as we engage with the complex, and often emotionally charged, dynamics we witness in our work each day.

Sustaining our own wellness is a non-negotiable part of providing ethical, attuned, and effective care to others. All professionals are required to engage in a minimum of one (1) hour of therapy every two (2) months.

What do we provide?

Supervision

All co-lab professionals benefit from both monthly individual and group supervision facilitated by highly experienced leaders in the field. These supervisors bring a depth of understanding around trauma-informed practice, family systems, and high-conflict dynamics—providing rich opportunities for reflection, debriefing, and skill development.

  • Group supervision sessions are offered monthly and scheduled across various time zones to ensure accessibility.

  • Individual supervision is available on an ad-hoc basis and can be booked directly through our internal system.

Supervision is not only a professional requirement—it is a cornerstone of ethical, sustainable, and high-impact work. It supports us in maintaining clarity, managing complexity, and providing accountable care to the individuals and families we serve.

Booking & Practice Management Support

Professionals are provided with access to a fully integrated booking system and secure client portal that streamlines scheduling, record keeping, invoicing, and communication. This system helps reduce administrative overhead and allows professionals to focus more deeply on client work.

Client Referrals & Marketing Pipeline

Co-Lab actively markets the services we offer and maintains a consistent pipeline of values-aligned clients. Our outreach spans web presence, social media, professional networks, and partnerships with legal and clinical organizations.
Depending on your area of expertise, you may be invited to work:

  • Individually with clients,

  • As part of a collaborative care team,

  • Or as a contributor to court-mandated or specialized family support services.

Team-Based Collaboration

Professionals at the co-lab company have opportunities to work within multi-disciplinary, consent-based teams. This team approach supports more holistic and responsive care—particularly for families navigating complex relational or legal dynamics.

Professionals benefit from regular interdisciplinary case discussions, internal referrals, shared insight, and the support of others who understand the depth and intensity of the work.

Resource Library & Ongoing Training

Professionals have access to a curated and continually updated library of resources, including:

  • Assessment tools

  • Reporting templates

  • Trauma-informed frameworks

  • Family systems models

  • Legal process reference guides

  • Neurodivergence-affirming and culturally responsive practice tools

Additionally, we host internal workshops and peer-led learning circles, and support attendance at external conferences, webinars, and certification trainings. As part of our commitment to excellence, we also require a minimum of 4 hours of continuing education every 3 months.

Support Navigating Court-Involved Systems

For those working with court-involved families, we provide:

  • Templates and training for writing clinical updates, service summaries, and consent-based observations

  • Guidance on documentation standards that are accurate, professional, and protective

  • Consultation and supervision to support you in high-stakes or legally sensitive cases

  • Boundary scripts and protective policies for handling communication from legal counsel or opposing parties

Our goal is to support clarity and containment so you can stay within your scope while still providing high-quality, child-centered support in complex family contexts.

Professional Recognition and Opportunities for Growth

Within the Co-Lab team, we recognize excellence, collaboration, and innovation. Professionals may be invited to:

  • Co-develop service streams or pilot programs

  • Facilitate group interventions or reflective workshops

  • Mentor new team members

  • Publish blog posts or resources

  • Represent Co-Lab in community or professional forums

Growth here isn’t just about seniority—it’s about contribution, thought leadership, and relational integrity.

Flexible Work Arrangements

You set your own schedule and have autonomy over your work environment, caseload volume, and hours of engagement. Whether you work full-time or offer select hours, your professional time is respected and your boundaries are upheld.

Our infrastructure is designed to support flexible, hybrid, and remote work, so that professionals can provide high-impact care without sacrificing personal wellness or family commitments.

Psychological Safety and Peer Support

Working with complex family dynamics, high conflict, and trauma-impacted systems can be isolating. Co-Lab provides regular opportunities for connection, debriefing, and peer grounding—not just for cases, but for you as a person.

Whether you’re managing emotional fatigue, navigating a difficult interaction, or simply needing someone who understands the terrain, our team is here. Psychological safety is not optional—it’s embedded in how we relate.

Professional Autonomy with Infrastructure Support

At the co-lab, you retain your professional autonomy while being part of a deeply supported infrastructure. We respect your scope, specialization, and chosen modalities while providing guidance, documentation, and structure to anchor your work.

You’re not left to “figure it out alone”—and you’re not micromanaged. We co-create clarity, alignment, and impact together.